Self reliant dating
This entry was posted on August 8, 2006 at am and is filed under Dating after 40, Dating chemistry, Getting your dating attitude on, Playing the online dating game, Releasing back into the dating pool, The first date.
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I told her that I understood how she wanted him to make his own decision. “It’s like you want him to be the President, yet you want to have veto power.” She laughed, and then got very silent. If you want him to lead, you have to be willing to follow. However, if you, as a woman, want to be a leader, understand these two things: 1) You’re not going to attract an alpha male. Strong-willed men – the kind that inspire confidence – are less likely to be “pleasers”. I’m not suggesting you make all the decisions for the nice guy either.
Both men claim to want to find love, but aren’t willing to sacrifice for it. It’s not that they’re bad people, it’s that they don’t have much to give to the relationship. It’s the most important thing in the world for them. You’re looking for a man to lead, to make sound decisions, to drive the car while you ride shotgun. And, believe it or not, you may be at the root of it. You tell him you’d prefer one in a different part of town. You tell him that you weren’t crazy about the reviews. ” Hey, at least he knows you’re not going to shoot down your own idea.And what’s the point of making a decision that’s likely to be vetoed anyway? After all, you’re going to have less conflict with a man who puts your needs above his.Your other choice is to date the selfish and arrogant alpha male, who usually puts his needs first, as you can tell from years of trying to tame the charismatic types. 😉 But I know for a fact there are plenty more of us out there.Most of these alone don’t mean there’s no second date coming. You can subscribe via RSS 2.0 feed to this post's comments.However, if there are several — or heaven forbid, all of them — just try to get out of there as quickly and pleasantly as possible. You can comment below, or link to this permanent URL from your own site.
“It was bad enough when he took me to a dive bar with live music.